Sanmao is a famous street writer whose works were once popular. One of her essays, "being able to make yourself happy is a power", makes people laugh unconsciously.
The article of less than 3000 words, actually spoke 21 times is happy! What makes sanmao so happy? Some examples:
Get up early in the morning, drink a cup of cold tea, play tai chi slowly for a few minutes, hit half, forget how to continue. Start again, still can't go on, simply stop, take a deep breath a few dozen,Wall mounted type air conditioner then say to oneself: "dozen!" Have another cup of tea and finish your morning class.
Sitting dead in the conference room, full of scholars tall, look like. Peeping at the hands of the watch is almost frozen, the speech beside the ear is not intended to listen to, the day is like a year. Suddenly the meeting program on the case several, quietly move paper boat, boat good, light put the table to push to push to play, again look at the watch, the minute hand move two boxes, not happy!
I made an appointment with my friend a few days ago, and forgot it after a few days china company setup. I felt that the time had passed, so I made a phone call to apologize and found that my friend had also forgotten me.
Hurry out of the door, tie shoelaces hard, shoe LACES broken, throw in the corner. Come home, discover shoelace can tie braid, pull another again then, get new head rope a pay, not as happy as not!
Every little thing in life is enough to make you happy. This is sanmao's way of happiness.
Life is originally happy, the big wind and rain, can see the rain line tear down by the window; The wind and rain is small, can hit an umbrella under the window, to hear the flowers open sound; Weather can climb mountains rent apartments in hong kong, cloudy days can play chess, snow night can drink, summer can eat ice.
Why we are not happy, because we have lost the ability of simple happiness, we think big rich big expensive, gold mountain silver mountain, big fish big meat, front huddle behind just happy. Therefore, we pay all to pursue, this instead has put on the mental shackles. The family is indifferent, the friendship is discounted, the love has disappeared. In the bridle of fame, like a stone abandoned to the wilderness, is the heart of light, and the gem of happiness.
Zhuangzi said that life should "travel with objects"; Buddhism tells us to turn outward with wisdom. But we are enslaved by material things, and we are transformed by external circumstances.
To make yourself happy is wisdom. Wisdom is not in other places, but deep in your heart. Your body is changing and will leave you one day and you will say goodbye to everything you had. The only constant, can only be your quiet heart, only it can accompany your life.
The quiet heart does not need any decoration. To care for this heart is the great wisdom of life and the real happiness.
To make others happy is compassion, to make oneself happy is wisdom. To know the wisdom that makes you happy is to know compassion. In this world, everyone is a small life, but because can let others happy, can realize their own happiness, can be big heart, access to different noble experience.
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